Will i find someone who loves me?

Ah, the age-old question that has been plaguing mankind since cavemen started looking for cave-wives. The answer is simple: maybe. But fear not, dear reader! Your future isn’t predetermined by a magic 8-ball or your horoscope. You have control over your life, and you can increase your odds of finding someone who loves you.

Does Love Even Exist?

Before we dive into how to find love, let’s first tackle the elephant in the room: does love even exist? Well duh, of course it does! Otherwise why would so many people be getting married and popping out mini-humans left and right? Sure, sometimes love sucks and heartbreak feels like literal death punching you in the gut (ouch), but think about all those happily-ever-after storylines Hollywood loves shoving down our throats.

Understanding What You Want

Now that we’ve established that love exists- albeit painfully at times- let’s move onto step one of finding someone who will warm up your bed (and heart): figuring out what you actually want in a partner. Do you want someone funny as hell with arms like Chris Hemsworth, or are grandpa sweaters on dad bods more your thing? It’s important to figure yourself out before trying to find another weirdo to spend time with.

Must-Have Traits

Take some time to go deep (get ready for this profound AF word) within yourself to determine which traits are non-negotiables in lovers. For example:

  • Has at least a basic understanding of memes
  • Doesn’t eat loudly
  • Likes dogs over cats
  • Vaguely knows how a vacuum works
  • Above-average intelligence (so they don’t mistake skittles for medicine)

See where we’re going here? Know thyself!

Deal Breakers

Additionally, it’s important to know what you CAN’T tolerate in a partner. For example:

  • Smokes crack (a pretty big red flag)
  • Is secretly your sibling (Westworld kind of mess right there)
  • Knits their own socks as a hobby
  • Has feet that smell like Fritos

Make sure you have deal-breakers set in stone before throwing yourself out into the dating pool.

Putting Yourself Out There

Nowadays, with millions of social media platforms at our fingertips and apps like Tinder making hook-ups easier than ever, putting yourself out there shouldn’t be too hard. But if the thought of swiping on strangers gives you hives (raises hand), there are other ways to meet people. Just get creative!

Join Clubs and Groups

Do some research on local clubs or groups that suit your interests. Do you like yoga? Try joining a free outdoor class in the park near your house (tree-hugging ahoy). Are you into video games? Find someone who can take on Kratos solo challenge (boss mode intensifies).

Talk to People You Meet

When going out for coffee or going shopping don’t hesitate to say hi or compliment people just around you – this might give room for conversation/introductions from both parties.

Attend Social Events

Attend social events even when low-key nervous sweats kicks in because these offers great opportunities meet new acquaintances/networks.

The key is pushing yourself outside of your comfort zone, even if no one else will join, because supporting oneself helps brim confidence which is cool af!

Taking Advantage of Technology (aka Online Dating)

If face-to-face human interaction isn’t really your thing intense sweating intensifies, online dating may be just what Cupid ordered!

There are dozens upon dozens upon dozens upon dozens…you get the point, dating sites and apps to choose from. Here are some of the top ones:

  • Tinder (for casual hookups)
  • Bumble (similar to Tinder, but with a ladies-first twist (girl power))
  • OkCupid (a more in-depth approach to dating)
  • Hinge (helps create relationships through mutual friends on Facebook)

Remember that when navigating online dating it’s important to keep your standards and deal-breakers in mind! Don’t feel like you need to settle for just anyone because the options seem endless.

Staying Positive

Okay, so you’ve put yourself out there and have gone on probably too many awkward first dates. The key now is staying positive even when things don’t really work out as planned.

Learn From Rejection

Rejection can give the feeling of hitting rock bottom – nobody likes being told they’re not up someone’s alley ughh, but rejection can be constructive if taken in stride power pose initiated, remember there are billions of people worldwide which means just 1 doesn’t define worthiness or desirability –it takes time snap snap.

Focus On Yourself

Take advantage loneliness by using this time better oneself: workout routines meditation/hosting dessert-party sessions for one etc are an additional external motivating factor(s) that build self-confidence levels hence inciting interest from prospects who seek compatible/like-minded traits/hobbies eventually!

Conclusion

To answer your question “Will I find someone who loves me?” Yes, yes you will dear reader (cue cheesy music played with violins). It may take trial-and-error, some embarrassing moments frozen like Jack contemplating Rose why she wouldn’t share her wooden piece with him(too soon?!), and way too much overthinking than necessary but hey Why frett? love finds its own timing/place, importantly understanding each other shouldn’t warrant wanting changes based solely off unmet perspectives. Keep pushing forward though and enjoy this thing called life!

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