When a man isn t sure about you?

Men can be quite an enigma, especially when it comes to relationships. One minute they are all over you like white on rice and the next, they become aloof and distant. If you find yourself in this confusing situation with your man, don’t worry; you’re not alone. Almost every woman has dealt with or is currently dealing with a guy who isn’t sure about them.

So why do men behave that way? Well, there are tonnes of reasons for their actions -some of which will be explored in this article- but one thing is certain: It’s possible to decode these guys if you dig deep enough into their behaviour patterns.

Uncovering The Reasons Why Men Are Unsure

Many times, women take things at face value without analyzing underlying issues that may impact their relationship progress. So before throwing in the towel on what could potentially be a great match-up between yourself and ‘the one’, let’s explore some of the reasons why men act unsure so we can help unravel some misconceptions:

He Is Scared Of Being Vulnerable

In most cases, when a man begins to distance himself from his partner after being all lovey-dovey (possibly even using language your cats would cringe at), it might either mean he got freaked out by how quickly things moved or worse still; fear of getting emotionally hurt keeps him guarded as much as humanly possible.

He Has Emotional Baggage That Needs Dealing With

When someone goes through challenging lives–ranging from loss/death anxiety/fear related–they tend to end up carrying scars many years later.Subconsciously putting up walls.To get close again becomes almost impossible whilst avoiding getting genuinely entwined–due not wanting to enter those dark memories ever again.Just requires time + understanding!

Right Person Wrong Time

Timing plays an important role in relationships, and if the guy isn’t at a place in his life where he can commit to a relationship either because of work or personal issues, it may spell trouble for your budding romance. Sometimes getting that promotion could wait.

There’s Someone Else

Welp! The harsh truth is this – some guys are just plain disrespectful/selfish creatures who care more about themselves than that woman they’ve been seeing (for whoever she may be). In other cases, perhaps there’s someone else they’re interested in/already dating/partnered with which makes them unsure/unavailable/neglectful of their connection with us ladies.

Actions Speak Louder Than Words:

Often times men show what’s going on through their behaviour–words would not suffice as much potential misunderstanding due to interpretation errors occur when communicating verbally:

He Stops Texting/Calls

If you notice Your man has gone AWOL all of a sudden without an explanation even after pursuing endlessly,you should fully assume he might be having doubts asking: “where did I go wrong”,instead get proactive realize few closure sentences from him.To have vague conversation . That’s okay too- Rejection hurts but letting go does heal!

Asking “What Happened?” Has Lost Its Grace Now
‘Questions like “Did I do something wrong?” can come across apologetic/too overboard‘’, whereas assuming you’re also busy hence haven’t been texting constantly make him feel too guilty if answering late by creating scenarios for himself.Maybe give two/three texts then focus energy & time elsewhere .

“You deserve better” he Utters Whilst Saying Goodbye.
It sounds familiar right? That classic “it’s not you, it’s me!’ line alongside others must resonate quite deeply within many minds given the number of times relationships end abruptly. If your situation happens along these lines bite bullets,tell yourself “I’m sexy&cool no matter what” and move on quickly.

He Shares Less With You Than Before

when earlier discussions shared was full in detail (even oversharing making you feel like his best confidant), lately getting useful feedback from him seems unlikely, hardly communicates and using one-word responses…It’s a sign that he may be pulling away or finding this early bond too personal/emotionally-intense for now. Don’t try pushing or forcing the conversations, respect your partner’s space as everyone has the right to process life at their own pace.

The RISE Approach To Handling The Uncertainty

Feeling unsure/unappreciated/disconnected concerning romantic issues is quite common amongst all sexes spread across time spans; but how can we improve these scenarios? Introducing the “RISE” approach will help women deal with uncertain relationships effectively:

  1. Recognize: By carefully observing & analyzing behaviour patterns and interpreting them based on situations ,Women would develop better communication skills–perceive what each gesture indicates irrespective of direct statements made by their partners.
  2. Introspect: Take inventory of oneself, identify self-worth qualities/gifts that makes you unique&standout PLUS areas needing improvement .
  3. Make Self Priority: Many times in relationships, placing others’ satisfaction higher than our own could mean losing yourselves: rather insist more explicitly about Personal requirements/outlets defining/supportive/engaging lifestyle .Essentially it’s good feeding into creativity/self-fulfillment which matters most.
  4. Engage & Enhance Your Life-Lover Quality Communications particularly when showing concerns pertaining someone else requires same level sincerity/responding accordingly.Make extra effort learning new fun Genuinely engaging activities providing solid outlets also build you up mentally thereby increasing morale!

Benefits Of Relying On Friends And Family During These Times

Let’s face it; dealing with an unsuitable situation potentially born out of love sucks. But especially when social media is full of happy couples, it’s easy to begin feeling like something is wrong with yourself. Fortunately, you don’t have to deal with these feelings alone; rely on your friends and family for some much-needed support.

They Provide Your Partner-free Environment

Your Cheeky pals could provide completely bias/non involved conversations regarding relationships without potentially stressing their partner out.

They Offer A Listening Ear

Never understate the power of an ear eagerly willing to listen without judgment whilst providing enough insight into different scenarios from personal experience can make a significant difference in dealing with partners/rmsituations .

They Boost Your Confidence

Having people there as unwavering forms of supports helps individuals gain more confidence within self regard less-solely based opinion thereby slowly reducing insecurity moments!

Conclusion

Relationships aren’t always rainbows and sunshine even though scroll through Instagram will would say otherwise. However being proactive/analytical allows one dictate/correct any negative energy stumbling blocks before situations worsen(toxic).By effectively using tools discussed herein(RISE) while also actively relying on quality personnel (family/friends), might genuinely increase connections within sincere healthy ways which help both parties feel valued appreciated respected – Because really what’s love got do not know?

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