What does his silence mean?

We’ve all been there before- the guy you’re interested in suddenly goes quiet. You send text after text, eagerly waiting for a response, and yet nothing seems to come through. So what does his silence mean? Here’s everything you need to know about decoding men’s lack of communication.

Introduction

Communication is said to be key in healthy relationships but when it comes specifically to men; communication can feel like rocket science at times. Although women are wired differently from men, that doesn’t mean guys should get off scot-free from proper communication efforts! Alas, we are here at “What Does His Silence Mean?”

Reasons why he might not message back

There could be several reasons why your man isn’t getting back at you:
He could genuinely be busy.
He may have something pressing on his mind.
He might not have liked how the conversation was going
Maybe he’s waiting or hoping someone else will spark an interest in him closer by…
The possibilities are endless… but don’t worry because understanding these possible causes can put your mind at ease about things you cannot control!

When Should You Start Worrying?

It’s really easy for us ladies (or anyone) with anxiety/ insecurities when things go eerily silent on our phone screens until… the morning sun shines bright again… so just how long SHOULD one wait before freaking out? Honestly girl I think GIVE IT TIME – but if your patience meter/bladder is overflowing then take a nap or watch Cheers reruns…. whatever it takes. One day is totally acceptable without hearing from him …Give it around two days before maybe poking gently with “Hey Stranger” kind of message –avoid anything too aggressive normally until Day 3 which would make me call my girlfriends over and quickly shout around ideas…

Reasons Why Silence May Not Be A Bad Thing

Silence can also be a good thing. Here are some reasons why he might not have messaged back, and why you shouldn’t worry just yet:
He’s respecting your boundaries
He is dealing with something larger like his family/ friend circle drama!
Maybe after the first couple of messages (or I guess before) he got an idea that you’re busy or maybe even want more space
Of course, it’s hard to feel better instantly about “radio silence” but dudes certainly aren’t known for doing this ‘just because’. Ponder on those bullet points…

What To Do When You Don’t Hear From Him?

When things start to file away into our subconsciousness that we haven’t heard from Bae- there quite a few options! Taking control of your own life, one suggestion would be option #1: keep yourself busy –start learning how to salsa dance; binge-watch foreign films until 3AM –you’ve always been interested in cross-stitching right? Know what I mean ladies?!? Option #2 could entail … specifically expressing how “the silent card” makes YOU uncomfortable & listen up when they talk to respond as much as possible… again waiting a little bit then reaching out mindfully won’t hurt :).

If both aforementioned take zero effect and the radio station is still dead air don’t fret consider talking to him directly about it – communication is important between any two individuals involved no matter where in relationship cycle things stand!

The Different Types Of Communication Styles Men Have

Now let me disclaim real quick: every man doesn’t fall under one specific category hence each guy has differing degrees of these categories if they apply at all (snaps fingers) soooo here we go ladies 😉

Type 1: The Overthinker

This type tends to give meaning/s to conversations beyond what was intended but infrequently communicates.

Type 2: The Avoider

Usually, an avoider resorts to silence when there’s conflict or they just cannot get their point across

Type 3: Guru of One Word

He thinks it works best when minimal words are questioned

Type 4: Can’t Feel the Emotions Guy

This type is tough to gauge because he has trouble communicating real feelings even if hurt/rage level red.

Why He Isn’t Responding To You

We decoded the different communication styles men exhibit up above but why aren’t they responding? Firstly- let’s not peg ONLY guys with this habit – we’re all guilty at times for not messaging back so cut em’ a little slack lol ^(Guilty af). The next few points highlight possible reasons:
Maybe you’ve been smothering him and he needs more space than before.
Possibly things have hit stale monotony and regular conversation starters have become dull (maybe be a storyteller now)
Then again maybe he isn’t down for any pivotal stage transitions of your personal life ie; job offers mid-distance relationships etc., —

The main takeaway from these various snippets can undoubtedly help one understand better based on the full picture! Take comfort in that change IS constant—and exit gracefully –allow responsibility where appropriate.

When Should You Give Up On Him?

So let’s say without my “rational” ladies’ excuses you think “this man” should’ve responded by now…When should I really give up?? In reality girl^^(or guy), that’s entirely dependent upon your preference hence there isn’t any formula set in stone- YOU can decide however always keep one’s dignity in mind cus let us face it no one wants to appear like that. Allow some extra time if warranted don’t necessarily burn bridges unless MEC strikes ya'(you’ll know).

Conclusion

In conclusion, his silence might mean different things depending on the situation. Don’t jump to conclusions but let him know that his lack of communication is bothering you if it persists. Remember to give them a space and do your best to understand their Communication style(s). Who knows maybe this experience can bring even more cohesion between you two through reevaluating & improved lines of communication?