We Break Up, We Make Up: The Relationship Rollercoaster

Ah, relationships. A wonderful mix of love, lust and misunderstandings. They can be exhilarating and maddening all at the same time. One moment you’re sky high in happiness, the next you feel like a bungee jumper without a cord.

But we keep coming back for more.

Why is that? Why do we stay in relationships that make us question our sanity? That’s what we’re here to explore today – the ups and downs of the relationship rollercoaster.

Breaking up is hard to do

Let’s start with what causes us to break up in the first place. There are countless reasons why couples decide to call it quits – some serious, some not so much.

Compatibility Issues

The dreaded ‘C’ word – compatibility – can strike fear into any couple’s heart if they’re not on the same page. Whether it’s differences in interests or goals or long-term plans, ultimately these issues end one relationship only for another one could begin again later down the line.

Cheating

Infidelity is never easy and often leads to heartbreak but there may still be times when couples attempt forgiveness after an affair occurs.

Communication Breakdowns

Relationships thrive on communication or lack thereof which might lead both parties feeling unheard leading them towards breakup.

For whatever reason people have; breaking up really hard thing facing themselves through. No amount of Ben & Jerry’s ice cream will ever completely heal your broken soul once your significant other walks out that door.

But then something happens…

It’s funny how life works sometimes – just when you’ve thought things were over between you two forever — BAM! You find yourselves drawn together again like moths to a flame… And thus begins round 2 (or round 3…).

Making up feels good

After weeks/months of crying and blasting Adele every day, it’s never a dull moment to start speaking to your former flame again. There’s this initial excitement called reunion sex that just feels so damn good… until the fight breaks out again for one reason or another.

Let’s take a look some factors which cause us to make up:

The Ex Factor

Soo your most recent breakup has left you feeling like an empty shell. You contemplate reaching back out because of “that someone” who appreciated things about into what was missing from the last relationship anyways.

Routine

Sometimes we get comfortable in our daily lives and find comfort through predictability – even if that includes getting back with ex-partners.

Emotional Attachment

At the end of the day, emotions lead us humans down many paths off toward farfetched land.This is why people choose to stay together when they know ahead-of-time whether their future will be bleak.

Irrespective of which term well applies to your situation; there come motions where makeup is inevitable.

But then something happens…

Unfortunately relationships aren’t always rainbows & butterflies. History often repeats itself as FOMO kicks in unless couples learn from past mistakes, behavior patterns becomes familiar in how disagreements are handled.

Hold on tight – Its Roller-coaster time

As seen earlier mentioned above: Relationships can seem feeble or rigid — depending on particular situations but both partners would stick around either ways based on circumstances; Here comes phase 3, where things really get interesting — new beginnings are constantly around a bend!
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Passion Overload

Ah! What did I tell you? It’s all rollercoasters over here – one minute they’re telling you about skydiving trips planned next week after promising forever love at midnight…BUT WAIT HANG ON A SECOND! sure enough passion leads guarantee adventure thereafter.

Back To Square One

Drama sometimes wouldn’t hold up, because somehow things don’t feel as great the second time round. At this point you’re back to square one — indecisive about whether or not your partner is perfect match.

Make Or Break Moment

The good news? Once two people in a relationship come out of conflicts unscathed, they often end up with stronger relationships overall. This could be where moving forward comes into play.

For some of us individuals out there it seems like these phases may never happen at times but trust me; looking around will show life has a way of repeating experiences year over year – and each subsequent cycle offers new chances for that positively solid connection we desire.

Wrapping Up

It’s important to remember that not all relationships are meant to last forever – even if we think they should have a happy ending. Sometimes letting go is the best decision either party can make and it leaves room for growth both part-sides.

Whether you make up or move on from an old flame –always cherish lessons learned through different emotions experienced throughout life changing moments such as these…or well just stay tuned for Round 4?

Final thoughts

In essence: Relationship cycles — breaking up and making up again — follow-up protocols which seem almost unavoidable however regardless which chapter any couple land themself in keep note memories shared will always remain alive deep inside heart center stage!

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