Unraveling the Enigma: Conditional Love Defined

Love is an enigma, that’s for sure. What makes us fall head over heels? Why do we sometimes stay in toxic relationships when all signs point to ‘run’? Today we are going to dive into one particular category of love – conditional love. Buckle up and get ready! We’re gonna have fun unravelling this!

What Is Conditional Love?

Conditional love means exactly what it sounds like: “I’ll only love you if…”. It can be difficult to spot, because more often than not, the conditions aren’t explicitly stated.

The Picky Picker

Ever heard someone say they won’t date someone who doesn’t have a job or earn a certain wage bracket? That right there is conditional love at its finest. Or worst.

The thing about picky people is, they already know what they want before falling in with somebody new. Now, I’m not saying it’s bad to know your own boundaries and preferences but when those things become dealbreakers… Well folks you got conditional lurking around somewhere; best start looking for it now so that you don’t end up hurt.

Testing 1-2-3!

Another subtle example might involve little tests or trials out on your partner especially within the first few weeks of dating. “If he really cares about me then he’d drive two hours just to see me without my even asking him”. While some may see these sorts as harmless fun testing waters phrase others—raises hand—are naturally suspicious of them from day one.

Now ask yourselves fellow readers whether making someone bite their nails till stubs simply tell You Want them: How far would You go proving Your affection by ignoring your better Judgement just living up others’ expectations?

Does My Partner Only Like Me If… ?

Have you ever sat back and asked yourself why does Alex Jane Doe only seem to enjoy spending time with you when you’re buying them drinks or lots of gifts? Or why is it when they seem to be willing to pay more attention whenever there’s someone around whose opinion matters?

That right there is conditional love at play. Rather than loving you simply for who how You are, partners like these have an agenda of their own which has nothing to do with your happiness but everything about theirs.

Little Love-Notes… Conditionally

It starts out innocent enough – small love-notes and gestures designed to make us feel extra special every once in awhile. Some people might see this as a sign that their partner really cares about them! And while some tend genuinely want good things come others just sort manipulate Yours feelings ensuring they get what’s coming for themselves eventually soonest.

Signs That Show Your Partner May Be Loving You Conditionally

One way / There are tell-tale signs one can notice if a partner loves conditionally:

  1. Zero interest in getting along with family members/ friends
  2. Constantly putting stress on the idea of marriage– although no kind serious relationship talks going through yet.
  3. Regular Ultimatums needing met i.e., “if you don’t show me affection all weekend, I’ll assume you Don’t value Us anymore”

Note: Beware This Kind Of Affectionate Behaviors As They Can Signal Underlying Control Methods Aimed At Ensuring It All Goes According To Their Wish Lists Alone••

Conclusion

Conditional love isn’t necessarily bad: sometimes we give ourselves conditions too (and rightfully so). But when those rules cross over into ultimatums or self-serving promises, then the question becomes: Are these people even worth being around? Ultimately only You Have Power deciding What Is best suited decision-wise When exploring Relationships Gone Sour; always remember Words Wrung Heartache Touches Deeper Than Any Other Pain Emotion So Tread Carefully Looking Out Signs Warning Of Both Picky Picker Syndrome & Testing Kind.

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