Unlocking Her Desires: How to Get Your Girl in the Mood

Are you tired of hearing “Not tonight, honey” or getting rejected when it comes to intimacy with your partner? Fear not, because we have got your back! Although we cannot control how a person feels at a particular moment, there are ways to increase the chances of getting them in the mood. Here is what you need to do:

Set The Stage

First things first – make sure that both of you are relaxed and stress-free before trying anything passionate. You wouldn’t want her worrying about work deadlines while lying naked next to you.

  • Clean room: A clean room can be more inviting than one filled with clutter or dust coated surfaces.
  • Candles: Everyone knows that soft lighting and candles create an ambiance like no other.
  • Music: ‘Manic Pixie Dream Girls’ might suggest blasting indie music at full volume, but let’s face it – jazz or soul will set the mood much better.

Foreplay is Key

“The biggest sex organ is between ears”, said someone wise. And they aren’t wrong- foreplay includes everything from compliments and gentle touches that get her anticipation ramped up!

Playful Kisses

Start off slowly by kissing different parts of her body.

  • Work on stimulating erogenous zones around neck.
  • Moving down onto shoulders may unleash pleasurable sensation which she won’t resist if gained momentum with ease.

Touch Her Body

As they say – sometimes actions speak louder than words. Since every woman likes different types of touch, start slow and ask for feedback through phrases such as “how does this feel?”

Learn What She Likes Best (And Do It)

Keep focussed on supercharging pleasure under fluctuating passions by asking questions like:

1) What makes you feel desired?
2) Many women love clitoris stimulation during foreplay embraces it too, but some prefer gentle touches around the thigh?
3) Double check by opening conversation to prevent stepping up his or her life and indicating when they don’t like something.

Give Her A Massage

There’s nothing more sensual than a relaxing massage administered lovingly on bed wearing only a towel. The right touch has the power of unwinding tight muscles that played havoc over long working hours leaving multiple knots in your back causing pain at times.

Mix It Up With Roleplay Scenarios

Getting creative in bed can be an excellent way to spice things up – there are endless possibilities!

1) Naughty Nurse: Unleashing is sometimes about understanding boundaries with ‘nice’ authority figure roles.
2) Schoolgirl fantasy: Sick day? Play hooky from “work” together.
3) Mythical Creatures: Channel Dracula or Vampira.

If All Else Fails, Spoil Her

Why not simply take the lead and give her what she wants – without any expectations. Who doesn’t love being pampered?

  • Brunch dates
  • Day out shopping
  • Weekend getaways away,
  • Poems written exclusively for her

You never know where these small gestures may take you…

With all said above, breaking monotony will spark ample ideas into senses which one must attempt incorporating inside their bedroom habits frequently to fly high as far as passion is concerned.

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