The Rise of Narcissism: Men will become lovers of themselves!

As the old adage goes, “love yourself first and everything else falls into line”. However, in recent times, it seems like many individuals take this saying too far as they become obsessed with their looks and image.

Narcissism is on the rise, particularly among men. This article explores why this trend is increasing and what may happen if it continues to escalate.

What Is Narcissism?

Before going deeper into narcissism’s rise among men, let us start by defining what narcissistic behavior entails. Narcissism refers to excessive self-love that manifests itself as an unshakable preoccupation with one’s appearance or achievements along with total disregard for others’ feelings and opinions.

Individuals who show signs of narcissistic tendencies crave attention excessively while insisting that others should validate them at all times.

The Masculine Identity Crisis

More often than not, the media portrays women as being obsessed about how they look while disregarding anything else. But according to a new study carried out by researchers from London School of Economics (LSE), the data shows more men suffer from insecurity about their bodies now than ever before.

The study found that body dissatisfaction has skyrocketed amongst young male millennials over time because social media platforms heavily influence views about idealized masculine bodies. Many males might feel emasculated since traditional masculinity mores have been considered unhealthy toxic behaviors in contemporary society over time (particularly suppressing emotions). Without vital ways to assert traditional maleness or express corresponding emotion healthily, a void is created indwelling non-fulfillment leading towards self-centeredness.

Additionally, dating apps/sites reinforce physical attractiveness standards using algorithms that favor stunning looks which indirectly perpetuate insecurities in someone not passing those threshold filters; furthermore incentivizing high profile pictures/professionals photoshoots creating open contempt for anyone who looks otherwise.

Social Media Influence

The explosion of social media usage over the years has led to the exacerbation of narcissistic behavior amongst men. A recent survey conducted in Germany reveals that social networks have become notorious breeding grounds for attention-seeking individuals (Narcissists) seeking validation from their followers.

Men may feel inclined more towards being self-centered due to a culture that prioritizes getting as many likes and re-twangs as possible above other considerations such as self-betterment and rational debate based on facts rather than agenda driven assertions posing themselves off. Many significant achievements are no longer celebrated if not splattered all over feeds on Twitter, Facebook, or any other platform available.

Moreover, spending hours scrolling through Instagram pictures of conventionally perfect bodies users enhance nutritional supplements, teeth whitening treatments among other superficialities imply unless one lives up certain standards it’s hard to get noticed by peers/followers – limited filters & lighting contribute some distinctions but overall it seems nothing takes preference more than total agreement with societal beauty canons – indirectly lasting within contemporary masculinity perception limitations (unable to discuss physique without insecurity reflecting low performance levels).

The Lack of Consequences

One critical insight into this conundrum lies in how our society views narcissism versus self-love; On an animal level, natural consequences kick-in when untreated diseases lead creatures dying while others adapt survival instincts useful regards future events impacting both species & environment collectively cooperating prospering over time under said circumstances – additionally helping maintain biological premise balance.

On the contrary side, although problematic traits like vanity mostly fall under misconceptions human nature prodded by celebrities influence media reinforcement/self-promotion marketing agencies pushing narrow ideologies serving them only applying whenever financially feasible benefits trending closely followed “standards” – something should be done since this predominant trend remains unhinged diverting manhood pillars emphasizing group triumphs complementing strengths covering weaknesses going together amidst collective progress derived from objectivity in thoughts and actions.

What Are the Possible Consequences?

If narcissism continues to pervade our society, then men might struggle more with traditional masculine roles that require selflessness and consistency beyond maintaining supple skin; Jobs such as emergency responders, military personnel or blue-collar so-called “rough” occupations not needing expensive gym memberships besides willpower continuously step back (abandoning) making room for others willing to willingly work without expecting anything in return and honor their sacrifice.

Moreover, finding meaningful relationships may become a challenge since any movement worth living should have alignment within values highlighting sincerity & respect toward others rather than milking superficial desires requiring constant validation pre-empted by perpetual comparisons – overall showing lack of growth reflective career progression development riddled of prejudice inclusive exclusions).

Final Thoughts

In conclusion, narcissism isn’t something to joke about or encourage. As discussed above if it persists unchecked may lead towards broken fraternity promoting personal breakdowns every turn challenging essential values at the heart healthy sociocultural coexistence . In moderation self-love might be helpful but going too far can bring misfortunes consequentially paving way for many unforeseen negative implications multiplied over time as conditions develop worsening upon escalating uncontrollably uncovering new mirrors looking right through fading reflections.

Our aim should now focus on educating ourselves society-wide regarding how we view external superfluities ruining authentic masculinity goals safeguard its robust unit foundation against building up fake egos fortifying extrovertedness somewhere down into existence stepping out conformist shoe models aspiring moments genuinely authentic selves deriving fulfillment emotionally enriching experiences those who hold dear enjoy life devoid introspection disregarding popular ambiguities transpiring everyday heavily impacting shaping views various components staying open-minded objective despite familiar modernization trap factors around them seeking shortcuts desensitizing consciousness sending shockwaves quickly engulf eventually feeling lost alone misunderstood deserted necessary points find grounding pride conformity embracing individuality working options.

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