Texting Etiquette 101: How to Text Someone You Don’t Know

Texting someone you don’t know can be nerve-wracking. But fear not! All it takes is some basic texting etiquette and you’ll be on your way to making new connections in no time. In this article, we’ll cover everything from how to start a conversation with a stranger via text, to what emojis not to use. So grab your phone and let’s get started!

Introduction

Before we dive into the nitty-gritty of texting manners, it’s important to establish a few ground rules. First off, NEVER text someone anonymously – that’s just creepy (and illegal if you’re sending threatening messages). Secondly, remember that texting is an informal mode of communication so there are certain things that might fly over texts that won’t necessarily work well in other media.

How To Start A Conversation With A Stranger Via Text Messaging

The first step is always the hardest when initiating conversations with strangers. Lucky for us all, text message openers are relatively easy because they allow for more thoughtfulness since gone are the days where courting involved writing letters back and forth like Tom Hanks’ character did in ‘You’ve Got Mail.’

So here are some creative ways to jump-start your messaging:

  • Ask about their interests.
    -Are they interested in sports? Do they enjoy reading? Are foods their thing?
    Avoid asking generic questions by being specific such as “Do you play cricket?” or “Can I interest you with my vegetarian keto recipe?”

  • Compliment them.

    • Everyone likes hearing nice things about themselves (even computers!) However; ensure compliments stick within common decency limits concerning physical appearances.
  • Bond Over Something Negative
    Nobody wants confrontation during introductions but something negative yet uncontroversial could break ice – say terrible weather conditions or aglobal pandemic situation at the moment.

Mind Your Manners: Texting Etiquette Rules To Follow

Being polite goes a long way in the digital world too. Here are some unwritten rules you should follow for seamless texting conversations:

Response Time Is Everything

Don’t make it seem as though they’re begging you to respond days into a conversation because ‘Rana from Accounting’ could text back immediately.

Keep It Short And Sweet

The short attention span of 21st-century humans is due to our daily consumption of viral memes, vines and those TikTok videos, meaning we expect emails and texts that get straight to the point.

Do Not Be Overbearing Or Repetitive With Messages.

Attempting (Where did they learn this word? ) contacting someone after several messages with zero response or sending constant reminders might be interpreted as desperation/harassment if not communicated correctly.

### Know When To End A Conversation
Texting isn’t endless chatting so be respectful and leave when things begin heading southward – Note that sarcasm doesn’t always work via emojis!

What NOT To Send: The Wrong Emojis For Random Contacts

Emojis have been revolutionized communication over time because words aren’t enough; however misinterpretation can occur quickly hence why certain ones shouldn’t be used since assumptions abound such as:

  • Eggplant emoji – do not send this unless fruitful transportations are happening or they explicitly requested photos of groceries!
  • Peach Emoji – Again keep food items away from anything remotely sexual.

Conclusion

By following these tips, you’ll find your texting game much improved when it comes to reaching out to strangers by SMS/messengers platforms. Think about how many new people you will meet now; talking down at anyone makes everyone hard done-by but keeping it light-hearted yet straightforward breeds natural relationships among other benefits! Remember email etiquette takes some getting used so take baby steps where necessary towards giant strides – just like walking.

Happy texting!

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