Marriage Magic: Movies for Married Couples

Are you tired of the same old date night routine with your spouse? Bored of dinner and a movie or another round at your local bar? Fear not, lovebirds! The solution to spicing up your relationship could be as simple as a night in with some good ole’ fashioned movie magic.

In this article, we’ll explore the power of movies in strengthening and enhancing married relationships. Here are some tips on how movies can benefit you and your partner:

1. Understanding Each Other’s Tastes

Before diving into our recommendations, it’s important to acknowledge that everyone has different tastes when it comes to films. Some people prefer action-packed blockbusters while others gravitate towards romantic comedies or independent dramas.

It’s essential to recognize each other’s preferences before selecting something to watch together. Otherwise, miscommunication might lead to one person feeling uninterested or unhappy during the viewing experience which will result in an argument (Newsflash: arguments ≠ romance).

And oh boy, after my friend Matt made me sit through Transformers for six hours (ok fine maybe it felt like six), I was ready to call off our friendship…luckily I followed rule #2:

2. Have an Open Mind

Let’s face it; sometimes compromise is necessary in any healthy relationship – even if that means giving up what seems like quality time watching Shawshank Redemption so you can indulge his WWE obsession later on (Save yourself now guys/gals/mates/zesty sea lions!)

Try stepping out of your comfort zone once a month by taking turns picking the film selections – who knows what hidden gems you’ll discover?

Speaking from experience – After admitting my unwavering adoration for cheesy Hallmark holiday-themed rom-coms (Don’t judge me) – My boyfriend Dan surprised me by choosing “The Holiday” starring Cameron Diaz & Kate Winslet (which will forever have a special place in our hearts).

3. Escapism

It’s no secret that adulting is tough – juggling work, finances, hobbies and other obligations can easily take the fun out of life (#adultingishard). Watching movies together provides an escape from reality for even just an hour or two.

How about experiencing a whimsical adventure in Tim Burton’s “Big Fish”, lip syncing to ABBA hits during Meryl Streep’s iconic performance in “Mamma Mia” or turning into hopeless romantics with Rachel McAdam’s enchanted time-travel flick “About Time” – Just remember to make some popcorn!

4. Communication Skills

Communication lays at the heart of any solid relationship foundation and watching films together could be a way to spark necessary conversations inspired by what was presented on screen.

For instance, after watching David Fincher’s masterpiece Gone Girl – My significant other and I engaged in endless discussions concerning trust issues within relationships – because you know sometimes we need validation from fictional characters ok?

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5. Builds Empathy

Halfway through Eternal Sunshine his tears weren’t exactly hidden as we BOTH recognized which moments flooded with Emotion (Again..no Judge-y)

Movies often explore poignant experiences exposing angles that aren’t always routine in everyday society – This helps us become more empathetic towards those who’ve dealt with similar hardships.

Very much like ‘A Star is Born’ showed how addiction affects both parties which allowed us to connect better on emotional levels as spouses whilst exploring ways of supporting each other overcoming challenges.

Our Magic Movie List for Married Couples

Ready? Buckle up everyone ! Here’re are some handpicked choices sure to cater to all palates:

For Adventure-seekers:

  • Raiders of The Lost Ark (1981) – A classic adrenaline-pumping action movie.
  • Harry Potter series – because what’s better than a magical world right?
  • National Treasure (2004) – Nicolas Cage and Sean Bean hunting for treasure – Need I say more?

For Romantics:

  • The Notebook (2004) (Yes, we know it’s cliché) – Brace yourself for some classic tear-jerking moments.
  • Silver Linings Playbook (2012) – A quirky romance that explores just how significant acceptance > perfection. Starring Jennifer Lawrence & Bradley Cooper; this film shines light on mental health struggles in couples which is vital to delving deeper into the marriage bond.

For Comedy Admirers :

Laughter is essential in any relationship so these are great options to share a few chuckles..or uncontrollable fits of laughter together:
– Knocked Up (2007)
– Bridesmaids (2011)
– Pitch Perfect Series (2012)

For Fiction Enthusiasts:

Fiction films offer escapism like no other genre they open up an entirely new kingdom to us, explore life’s unfulfilled desires and conquer our fantasy worlds! Here’re our top choices:

  • Lord of The Rings Trilogy
  • Narnia Series
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Choose your next movie night wisely by selecting one of the suggestions above !

Remember lying down side-by-side with each other reading books at school? Watching Netflix as married lovers should be similar. It can provide yet another archetypal shared trait reminding you why you chose each other out of seven billion people!

  • When alone time becomes sparse or date nights become repetitive indoors movies elevate bonding experiences between spouses leading towards stronger communication skills, empathy building along with introspection.

It’s true that movies cannot cure marital problems magically but when combined appropriately and strategically they definitely inject profound magic within loving relationships could always evaporate monotony over time!

As long as mutual respect, communication and understanding are present any movie selection could lead towards a day to cherish with your spouse!

So grab the popcorn and let the romance flow! Remember: The couple who movies together stays together (or whatever that popular saying is).

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