Life is overrated: Reimagining the true essence

Are you tired of the monotony that comes with life? Do you feel like there’s something missing, even though you have a good job, great friends and a stable relationship? Fear not my friend, for I have some news for you. Life is overrated!

It’s time we reimagined the true essence of what it means to be alive. In this article, we’ll explore how our obsession with success and happiness has led us down the wrong path. We’ll also look at ways in which we can redefine the meaning of life so that we can all experience more joy and fulfillment.

The pursuit of happiness

We’ve all been sold on this idea that happiness should be our ultimate goal in life. But let me ask you this – what exactly does happiness mean to YOU? Is it owning a luxury car or living in an opulent mansion or perhaps having multiple vacations every year despite being unable to afford them financially or workload wise(not taking work stress into account)?

The truth is that happiness means different things to different people. Our society idolizes wealth, status and external validation as if it’s equally attainable by everyone but did you know that one person always wins when others lose?

When was the last time someone asked ‘what are your core values?’ instead of ‘What do you do?’ OR When was the latest instance where somebody asked ‘How do you make sense out of life?’ Instead of ‘How much money earning potential does your profession possess’? There aren’t enough conversations around those questions.

But these superficial markers don’t necessarily lead to long-lasting contentment.. You may get momentsary pleasure due to these pre-conceived notions(influenced by social media influencers etc) but let me just tell ya’, “Money doesn’t guarantee anything!”

Don’t just change your career, change your game

If you’re feeling stuck in life, the solution may not be as simple as changing jobs or relationship statuses.

Perhaps it’s time to fundamentally reevaluate what we consider success and happiness means on a personal level.

It’s time to ask ourselves – what are my core values? What truly makes me happy? Is aimlessly scrambling behind unrealistic expectations worth compromising with one’s true self for that momentary pleasure?

Once you have some answers‚ it becomes easier to make decisions around work‚ travel and relationships that will sustainably bring joy into our lives.(Which is quite rare in today’s fast moving world filled with ever-lasting competition)

The importance of purpose

One of the main reasons why people feel unfulfilled is because they lack a sense of purpose. Something greater than them( maybe not necessarily larger though).

Without knowing our lif’s mission statement,’’ we end up drifting through life without direction, like leaves blown away by string winds.

But rest assured there are ways to find meaning beyond work so chew over these ideas:

1) Volunteering with causes close to your heart can also provide immense satisfaction whilst being significant for society too.

2) Pursuing hobbies like writing / painting/ cooking etc could give us something genuinely meaningful outside of our day-to-day routines which sometimes spirals down into boredom.

3) Engaging with nature has an incredibly calming effect on most humans- It helps tone down anxiety, stress levels immensely while giving peace de resistance!

4) Being kind–to strangers but more importantly ourselves-isn’t taken nearly seriously enough IMO! Take all opportunities (small/large/speaking softly/smiling at passerby )to spread positivity (whenever safe ).

Incorporating any such activities(suitable based on need and interests)-no matter how small-across daily schedules can help reconnect one back onto its lost track.

Embracing vulnerability

Many of us have been taught since childhood to hide our vulnerabilities so as to avoid being open game for the bullies around. This has become a norm since time immemorial(cause nobody wants to be seen exposed and harmed). We think that by putting on a tough exterior, we’ll protect ourselves from pain and rejection. But this couldn’t be further from the truth!

When we’re vulnerable, we show ourselves in an unguarded light which actually makes us more relatable(in turn accountable) and endearing!

By opening up about what truly matters most (to oneself)-progressively deeper human connections could be established ; One may also witness surprising sympathizers in these relationships thereby reformed through mutual support!

Now why didn’t anyone tell me this sooner?

Knowing when enough is enough

As a society,we’ve normalized overworking & burning out . As if it’s something worth boasting off? There’s no denying that ‘hustle culture’pressurizes many into working longer hours than they should but at some point -it becomes hazardous(either physically or mentally or both)

It’s essential to recognize when you’ve reached your limit(actually define your limits first would help )-be it with work,dating or other commitments. Learn unplugging once in awhile– breaks are crucial for overall wellbeing!. If not convinced- Here’s Dave Grohl(Legendary Musician + Drummer turned published author)’s take on ‘Unplug To Recharge'(Yes,Y’all read that right!) :

“Living life four inches away from Instagram filters does little good if you’re unhappy with substances behind screens;
Sometimes I feel like I’m drowning inside; other times,I find myself slowly climbing back into my escape(the world around),I remind myself – _ You can do both.

Setting realistic boundaries will allow us to continue living life with enthusiasm without constantly exceeding personal limits.

To conclude :

The faster we realize our current habit of chasing success is more often tied to external validation, the easier it gets to broaden one’s perspective towards a fulfilling life.
Let’s try anyhow;

-It’s on us collectively as responsible beings to move ahead gradually and unlearn the masked misguidance offered by society

-One could take an Attempt at discovering core components that are most significant (Valuing what you surely approved of regardless of societal norms)

-Experimenting with nature or trying out new activities could lead way towards pondering over lot many important things -this headspace could be constructive for self growth!

-Managing time-line†o attain sense of balance between work goals,personal agenda etc can positively boost mental health & overall wellbeing which go hand in hand

But before anything let’s remind oneself again(Time and Again); “Life is overrated!” And no rush exists except for slowing down.

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