Letter to My Son: Crafting Heartfelt Words

In the digital age that we live in, it’s easy to pour out our hearts and souls via text messages, tweets or Facebook posts. But when it comes to writing a letter to your son – you’re going to need some heartfelt words.

As a mother of three boys (yes, my hands are full), I know all too well that finding the right words isn’t always easy. You want to convey how much you love them and how proud you are of them without sounding sappy or insincere.

So if you’re struggling with what to write in a letter for your son, fear not! Let me guide you through crafting truly heartfelt words that will make your little boy feel loved and cherished.

Show Your Emotions

First things first – let those emotions flow, baby! It can be difficult for parents to express their feelings because they don’t want their kids thinking they aren’t strong enough or capable enough of handling anything life throws at them. But really there’s nothing stronger than expressing one’s true feelings!

Don’t hold back on telling your son how proud he makes you even when/if he makes mistakes. Yes, even boys like compliments (shock horror) so tell him consistently all the ways he is doing great as well as showing interest in his interests/hobbies (no matter how boring it may seem) This will make him see the joy and support within family relationships while helping build confidence/self-esteem

Take time from being overburdened by other deadlines/chores/frustrations/stressors etc; look up where a local Starbucks cafe is situated (unless caffeine interferes with health/not ‘kid-friendly’) upgrade yourself with pumpkin spice latte/my personal favorite; caramel frappuccino- Take this time off with away from everything else including social media/gym buddies/officemates, while you enjoy being with your son and purely compliment him expressing how wonderful he is by himself.

Share Memorable Moments

Another way to make a letter heartfelt that will leave an impression on your child is to reminisce about some moments in the past where he brought joy into your life.

Take for example when my middle boy (we’ll call him Peter) introduced his younger brother (say Michael), only 6 at the time, into Pokémon GO- similar to most mothers I thought it was just another computer game but their enthusiasm skyrocketed! Gather intricate details of what makes that memory stand out – this helps create specific stories for later reflection:

Do not forget to jot down

  1. Vivid observations
  2. Expressions,
  3. Reactions
  4. Similarities between said experiences over each passing year/month/week even!

As much as possible keep the tone informal/natural allowing personal expression from both Ends so stay clear of professional habits/languages; no matter how catchphrases like ‘… going forward we have seen…’ or ‘all hands on board should align objectives’ seem appropriate {news flash!!} they’re incredibly uncool and certainly non-relatable!

Keep Your Message Personalized

No generic templates please, If you’re looking online right now searching for help always bear in mind there’s nothing worse than coming up with sentiments or words someone else wrote/assembled themselves getting them all familiar/used creating an unclear sense of sincerity when looked upon.

Just think back on any recent memories together also consider writing down things Your kid’s interested which should come natural due prior discussions/debates/

If anything comes up through recall use it alongside pointers here:

  1. Acknowledge traits distinctive/special unique qualities – name certain examples!
  2. Use practical tips regarding life-experiences/everyday-moments.
  3. Offer advice providing insights done/improved.
  4. Surprises! Compile jokes/funny moments making it enjoyable to read!

Use Words That Speak His Language

It’s common knowledge that everyone has a unique body language/communication what applies in this case is being able to know how to properly express yourself emotionally while still speaking their ‘lingo’ My grandson sometimes laughs when I say out loud “it’s lit” or when I’m outdated and try saying things like on fleek

This means taking into account your son’s age, interests, humor levels, tone of words used/used against him whenever he catches something hard you threw his way

Aim for brevity adding other personal touches which elevate communication improves the rapport built on trust & respect.

Final Thoughts

Writing a letter to your son doesn’t have to be difficult if you take time understanding him and using creativity/originality alongside passion burning under parent radar.

Trying too hard isn’t advised no one knows better than our kids what gushed emotions we failed translating as authentic connection therefore do not fear but rather embrace any awkward/humorous moment shared with them observe each day closely; quickly noting down anything awesome every chance presented without minding possible critique about said action (another great story coming up).

So grab some paper and start jotting those ideas! This could create an everlasting message worth keeping forever communicated authentically exuberantly whilst simultaneously promoting healthy relationships between family members accompanied by heartfelt laughter emotion & reassuring support.

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