I Hate Parties: Why Socializing Isn’t My Thing

Parties – the mere thought of attending one is enough to send shivers down my spine. Don’t get me wrong; it’s not that I’m a social misfit who doesn’t know how to interact with people. It’s just that parties, in general, are not my thing. They’re loud, stressful, and chaotic environments where all sorts of crazy things happen.

If you’re a party person or someone who enjoys spending time at such events, then you may find this article somewhat confusing or even irritating (sorry!). However, if like me, going out to socialize sounds like torture- read on! Here’s all you need to know about why parties aren’t for everyone.

What makes parties so terrible?

The noise

Can we talk about the excessive noise levels at parties? The pounding music accompanied by screaming drunkards certainly isn’t music to anyone’s ears (unless you’re deaf). Incessant chatter, yelling across the room…it’s too much!

Crowds

Ever felt suffocated amidst an ocean of bodies? Yes- walking into a crowded space at a party can be overwhelming even for those who enjoy sociable activities.

Are simple gatherings any better?

Unfortunately not always- small get-togethers have their own problems…

Not enough people

There are times when there’s little more than two couples around chitchatting over glasses of cheap wine – yeah no thanks!

Too quiet

Quiet gatherings lead conversations down dull paths which quickly turn monotonous & uncomical due to low energy.

What do extroverts say about this?

As far as extroverted individuals go; they view going out & striking up conversation as easier than solving puzzles… eek!

For them though everything seems rosy- conversations rolling naturally from topic A through top Z…

Not the case for all

Yet, here’s the kicker- finding people with similar interests is easier said than done. Many a time couples will struggle to find common ground or shared topics of interest!

What about being stuck in group activities?

Activities such as beer pong may seem like fun & games at first, but once you’re trapped… it’s a downward spiraling trap from which one cannot escape until their inevitable embarrassment.

Is there any benefit to going out?

If I had loved going out like supposedly everyone else does; then maybe there would be some benefits to attending parties. But since that isn’t necessarily true for everyone…

Improved social skills

While parties help some develop newfound ease while speaking publicly, quite often this is also learned through work seminars and conference events!

Making new friends

Due to so many barriers holding us back (shyness, introversion… general lack of enthusiasm), meeting fresh faces can sadly become an uphill task (even if by chance we do label random acquaintances ‘buddies’).

Are you missing out on much?

Truthfully? It depends upon who you ask.

Popular opinion dictates that those not partaking in these exciting gatherings are unfortunately missing out on lots of stories including momentous breakups & wild after party frolicking!

But hold up.

Newsflash: almost nothing ever actually interesting happens at most parties. At age thirty, intoxicated hookups shouldn’t even still be rampant!

In conclusion

So why aren’t I excitedly awaiting my next invite away from home? Well simply put – people have different ways they elect to unwind – mine does not include fighting over Miller light then absurdly flailing arms when challenged no matter how hard others pressuring me try! There are plenty of alternatives, more fulfilling forms of relaxation available without every other detail unashamedly sore the morning after!

Thinking these points resonate with you too or simply cannot bear the idea of imminent embarrassment by way of spinning round drinking games? Do not panic – choices exist (luckily)!

Either way, know this. You are undoubtedly not missing out on much should you favor meeting friends over drinks at a quieter bar than a raucous party!

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