How to touch someone you like?

So, you’ve got a crush on someone and want to make physical contact with them without coming off too strong or creepy? Fear not my friend, because I’m here to guide you through the art of touching someone you like.

Body Language Says it All

Before diving into your touchy-feely plan, let’s talk about something very important: body language. Body language is key when approaching somebody in general but even more so when attempting to communicate interest physically. Subconsciously we all pick up on cues retrieved from other individuals’ bodies which can signal their mood or intentions – this includes everything from facial expressions to posture.

Observe the person that has caught your eye. Try getting closer keeping an open stance and relaxed posture ensuring that they do not feel intimidated by your approach. Maintaining ‘eye-contact’ shows them focusing entirely on your partner will help identify subtle changes in their disposition – meaning if they’re enjoying themselves or showing distress.

Is The Feeling Mutual?

Let’s split things up simply here: before making any contact at all, determine if there is mutual attraction between yourself and said crush! Keep an ear out for hints dropped in conversations as well as nonverbal areas such as lingering gazes & flirty vibes being expressed; don’t be shy about asking questions directly correlating towards relationship status either.

Beginning Mildly

You’ve built some confidence after observing positive signals indicating potential consensual reprucussions ahead! So what now? Start slowly!

Hand-Shaking Should Be Simple Enough Right?

No romantic evening is complete without a welcome handshake right 😉 Well… maybe becoming overly formal isn’t required per se but physical greetings are almost always appreciated regardless!

If You’re Not Sure About A Hug Then Stick With Casual Physicality Such As An Arm-Link Or A Fist Bump For Good Measure

The Power of A Touch on the Arm

Remember everything we spoke about regarding body language, aim to show confidence and that you have respect for your crush’s personal space. A momentary touch somewhere intimate such as a hand or arm is all it takes exhibiting geniality.

Testing Your Limits

So far so good! Hopefully, things are going well with your new boo-thing but enough baby steps – its time to take things up a notch!

Manspreading Is Unattractive But Leg-Brushing Is A Green Light!

Whether in cinema or cuisine decadent destinations, next time try gently brushing their legs with yours whilst touching boots under the table or benches. When sitting across from someone be careful not to cross into ‘manspreading’ territory; instead, subtly communicate interest with more delicate gestures.

Dance Partners Anyone?

Attending social events will give ample opportunities to test boundaries further without making them uncomfortable. Offer asking whether they’d like to dance together sending positive vibes whilst showing off those funky moves.

As long as respective signals stay open and amicable… why not attempt the ol’ classic move: playfully twirling her/him around before pulling back in close simultaneously gazing intensively towards theirs eyes? (make sure you don’t lose track of your center! )

Making That Final Move

At this point let’s assume there are evident signs suggesting mutual attraction between yourself & potential partner meaning its safe taking final steps forward…

Can I Kiss You?

It may seem unromantic but always remember communication is key – initiating physical contact should always start verbally by CONFIDENTLY requesting a kiss which also confirms that both parties want said closeness / intimacy at present moment.

If rejected being gracious/apologetic protects rapport forging paths where ‘friendship zone’, rather than hostility comes into effect.

Embrace Yourself!

Upon confirmation feeling free wrapping arms around each other is always a step forward to creating an intimate connection with someone you like.

Embracing Touch without Crossing the Line

Now that we have explored each level of interest via physical touch taking steps slowly; make sure boundaries are never crossed, meaning cultivating respect at all times ensuring future bonding isn’t ruined by feeling uncomfortable. It’s not just maintaining respect for your crush however but respecting yourself as well.

Remember Consensual Relationships Always Start With Comfortable Communication & Exhibit Positivity Meaning Comfortability Is Achieved For Both Parties!

Happy touching!

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