How to know whether he loves you or not?

Have you ever found yourself in that tricky situation where you’re not sure whether your partner truly loves you or just sees you as a convenient companion? If yes, then this article is for you!

It’s frustrating when someone says they love you and their actions imply otherwise. So, how can we tell if our beloved really means what they say? Here are some clues to help determine whether he adores the ground beneath your feet, or merely tolerates your presence.

Pay Attention to His Actions

There’s an old saying: “actions speak louder than words.” When it comes to matters of the heart, it couldn’t be more accurate. Someone who has genuine feelings towards another person will always show consistent effort in different aspects of life.

Does He Listen?

If he is interested in getting to know everything about you, including likes and dislikes, quirks and all types of stuff that makes up who you are-then it’s a clear indicator that he cares deeply for who YOU exactly.

Maintains Eye Contact

A man smitten with affection would keep direct eye contact without any hesitation while staring deep into the depths of your beautiful soul (assuming there indeed exists such depth). On the other hand if yall avoid each others’ gaze like two ships passing by one another at night- well,you should probably steer away from danger.

Follows through on plans

Ever made romantic future plans with him only for them never come true due to numerous excuses showing up? Girl.he might not have meant half of those promises ,periodt.
However,is his word bond?-does he try his best every single time imaginable so both parties feel fulfilled?

Pro tip

Actions do NOT solely define one’s authentic affections-therefore take multiple scenarios into account before mentally single-ing out someone

Communication Patterns

Communication is the gateway to any successful relationship. You can’t love someone you barely talk to, right? That said, how your partner communicates with you may offer some insight into their feelings.

Are his words inconsistent?

An obvious giveaway suggesting deep-rooted ambivalence breed in one’s mind is that he might say “I love you” on Monday and then tell ya round back circles behind his friends(gossiping lol) how much of a pain in the neck YOu can be.

On a similar note if he seems spontaneous when it comes to expressing affection towards others while not doing so with YOUuu.. red flags should probably pop up at this point.

Does he keep open communication?

Your man keeping lines of communication flowing all throughout day & night by throwing wacky anecdotes or even asking mundane household questions-that shows genuine interest imo.

Genuine Affection

Lastly-and obviously- real attraction propelled by devotion are characterized by displaying signs of physical affection as well.

Displays Public Affection

Feeling embarrassed showing off our partners aren’t uncommon,gotcha! But If your guy doesn’t want anyone else knowing yall sitting sweetly next to each other or god forbid,hugsss?!Lemme tell u my beloved friend,Dust him OFF.

Pro tip

In public scenarios where no such PDAs like hand holding etc take place also,you shouldn’t judge the worst straight off-rather observe and converse over casuals (did I hear coffee date? Yes queen).

Now,Friends/lovers often try to defend lukewarm behavior stemming from deeper issues as they themselves struggle through pointing out if hey indeed feel something for X person.While there exists NO definitive rulebook stating HOW one should behave towards their loved ones,YOU know-in actions and intentions -whether somebody cares for you deeply or just uses strings(hint: marionette)to kinda whisk things along without any genuine track to follow.

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