Be the Support System: Be There for Someone

Feeling lonely? Or maybe a loved one needs your help during tough times? Don’t worry, we’ve got you covered. Here are some tips and tricks to be someone’s support system that will make you feel like the best human on this planet.

First things first: What is a support system?

No, it’s not just having someone to hold your hair back when you’re puking after a wild night out (although that does count). A support system refers to individuals or resources that provide emotional assistance, practical advice, and an overall listening ear in difficult situations. Basically, being someone’s wingman through thick and thin—without screwing up their relationship with their crush because of jealousy!

The Benefits of Having a Support System

Having people who genuinely care about your well-being can do wonders for both physical and mental health! Studies have shown that individuals surrounded by strong social networks tend to live healthier lives than those who don’t have such connections. Some benefits include:

  • Decreased stress levels
  • Improved mood
  • Reduced risk of chronic disease
  • Increased longevity

So not only will supporting others make them happier but also keep yourself healthy too! It’s a win-win situation!

When Should You Offer Your Help?

Offering unsolicited advice isn’t always the right thing (I mean obviously). Sometimes people just need space or time alone after dealing with setbacks—it’s essential to respect boundaries! However, if someone tells you they’re going through something emotionally challenging or even physically taxing then here is how you can show up for them without making it awkward.

How To Be A Good Support System

Being there for someone means different things depending on the person — what works perfectly fine for one individual might be suffocatingly terrible stress-inducing behavior (yeah big words!)for another person. But over the years, we’ve learned a few things that work for many people.

Listen Attentively

Sometimes people just want to vent and let out their frustrations; they do not need quick fixes or solutions. As someone’s support system expresses empathy by listening actively without interrupting with unrelated anecdotes or impractical suggestions. You should create an environment where the other person feels safe and supported enough to share ALL of their thoughts no matter how candid (nope, this does not give you the green light to spill your beans!).

### Be Patient

We live in a fast-paced world — it is incredibly tempting to offer solutions when our friends tell us about problems! But hold on—rushing into someone else’s problem-solving journey takes time away from growth opportunities. Let them take their time and figure stuff out at their own pace while offering emotional validation along the way! This might mean that sometimes what your friend needs most from you is total silence!

Offer Practical Help Whenever Possible

If somebody has been going through something challenging for an extended period, they may have lost patience with everyday tasks like grocery shopping, laundry, walking dogs e.t.c because overwhelm gets real real quickly!!. By offering practical help (think helping organise home office desk or gifting food delivery subscriptions) can be a godsend!

Fortunately, there are also more ways to show up than delivering ready-made meal plates (although nobody will say no… Especially if chicken Alfredo is involved). Here are some creative ideas worth trying:

  • Organize “Care Package Parties”
  • Surprise Friends With Thoughtful Gifts
  • FaceTime Happy Hour Sessions
  • Send Snail Mail Letters Or Cards

Next up: unleashing Awesomeness When Supporting Someone Going Through Breakup!

How To Support Someone Going Through A Breakup

Breakups suck – even if it’s for the best! It hurts

But here’s the thing..

Your loved one doesn’t need someone to tell them “it’ll all work out.” Puh-Leeze, no sunshine promises in such vulnerable times pls! What they need is a non-judgmental ear to listen and be there for them when things fall apart. Here’s how you can be that person:

Listen Without Judgment:

Breakups result in emotional stress—a torrent of emotions ranging from anger, sadness, disappointment to fear – that everything has ended without another beginning coming forth, amongst others. Allowing your friend space to vent as well as share these feelings goes a long way towards reducing the burden on their mind.

### Be Engaging And Include Distractions

When circumstances permit i.e pandemic-free days (sigh) organising activities like hikes or movie nights goes a long way to help distract from negative thoughts while keeping spirits high.

### Offer Some Breathing Room For Growth And Rebuilding

Moving forward involves internalising lessons learned and acknowledging that not every relationship is meant forever. After some time has elapsed say 4-8 weeks (but never presume to know what’s best for your friend). Encourage reflection with questions like;

What did you learn about yourself?

What do you want in future relationships

So There You Have It!

Supporting others comes with incredible benefits beyond being able to say “I have friends” at social events— our personal health receives boosts too! As much as we’d love simple quick-fix universal formulas applicable across all persons getting through tough times; it isn’t possible. But Listening attentively, offering practical help whenever feasible whilst being non-judgemental are fantastic general-purpose tips most people will find useful! Remember different methods work better for different people!!

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